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A Message from the Founder of Talk Whisperer

Cory D Baker: Founder of Talk Whisperer

Talk Whisperer was born out of necessity. I have personally witnessed, or been directly part of, so much painful miscommunication in my life that includes many members of my Family, and thousands of children that I have taught. I did my very best to gain understanding with my Family, as I did with every child that was in front of me in the classroom. I held myself accountable on any occasions that I felt that I was out of line, offered apology when it was appropriate, and made my best attempt to rectify the situation. To witness so many barbs being tossed back-and-forth is just as bad as witnessing senseless violence, knowing that some of it can cause immeasurable damage. What drives my endless motivation is not the pain necessarily, but my certainty that most of those ugly situations were avoidable if responsible communication was practiced! This would be just a theoretical statement to make if it was not well-supported with a strategy and an approach that is unprecedented.

Talk Whisperer is designed to help all that want to ‘right the ship,’ and create new communication skills before further damage is done in your life, or teach you how to communicate with someone close to you that is the ‘bad communicator.’ There is no ‘dog’ that can’t learn ‘new tricks’ with our approach. We also want to teach these skills to your children, so they will have this priceless gift from you to carry-on for generations to come. So where do we begin this exciting process? First, with a common understanding of where we have come from.

Those of us that were educated within the standard, formal education system were taught what words meant, how to spell them, and how to write them in a well-structured sentence. But we were not taught how to say them to one another! For many of us, we have learned how to act and communicate with one another based on the mirroring example of the culture that we were raised in. I use the term act to describe all of the effective, and seemingly detrimental behaviors that we either adopted from those we grew up around, or created independently, based on our perceived experiences in the world. When I use the term communicate, I’m referring to the verbal language, dialect, body language, and the tone of voice that we typically use. To have effective communication with everyone in our lives, its important to understand ‘where the other person is coming from.’ We do this by making an extra effort to communicate in a way that we believe best gets our point across to that specific type of person(s). It’s just as important to also pay close attention to their reactions so that we have our best chance of being understood. It’s with this premise, that Talk Whisperer is wholeheartedly devoted. We are committed to ‘going on the whole journey’ with our clientele so that the goals you establish can be achieved no matter the given circumstances. There’s a reason why they call it ‘growing pains,’ but the satisfying payoff always makes it worth it! It’s important to be candid and honest with yourself and ask the question, “Who have I been, and what choices have I made in my life thus far that has left me discontent?

Our goal at Talk Whisperer is to have EVERY client possess the confidence to consider themselves a good communicator overall, and that they have the ability to effectively communicate through any challenging circumstance that they may find themselves in. Once our client achieves this level of confidence and ability, then all of your established goals in life will have a much better chance of being accomplished. For example, if your children often perceive that you have a condescending tone when you speak to them, then how does that hurt your chances of reaching your goal to stay closely connected to your children? Or, we notice that your body language is communicating low confidence. How would that hurt your chances to reach your professional goals? Did you know that there is a good, and a bad way to hug someone? It’ true. So what if your goal is to find the love of your life, but you don’t realize that you’re sending the wrong message in your hug to appeal to a new love interest? Getting the full picture yet of how we can serve you?

We understand that there are many Life Coaching companies out there, but what makes Talk Whisperer the most comprehensive Coaching company in the world, is that we also pay particularly close attention to, and specialize in effective-communication on a more extensive level than any other programs. We could not be more excited that you have come across our opportunity to get you started on your “path of success” that will be worth all of the effort that you will devote a million times over! NOW IS THE TIME that you need to pick up the phone and call us without any further delay, so we can help you answer the questions that you may still have about the right course of action for you. We look forward to connecting with you.

And remember, it’s not what you say, its how you say it.

I wish you all the success in the world!
Cory